Sex in Relationships

Sex is important its essential to a relationship and to marriage. There's a lot of people on they "Get pussy flow" now a days. And coming out a relationship I can see why. Now im not gonna spit out my personal business because that's not what I do, but sex is a key in maintaining a healthy relationship. Ladies, now your probably thinking, " If i have too much sex he gonna think im a hoe" or " I don't like sex like that" but in honesty you don't have to drop your panties to please your man. Too often i hear about girls talking how they cant find a decent man and that Men r stupid. I say blame your mothers. Our generation is headed by single black females who raise these so called ignorant jerks that we call the Men of the black community, but that's another topic for another day. Women you don't have to have sex with ya man to please him like i said if you care for him the same way that he should care about you then it should be easy to know what he likes. BAD SEX RUINS RELATIONSHIPS! If you don't believe me just think about it. Imagine its been about 6 months since you guys been going out and you finally have sex and its horrible, now some would say well as long as he treats me right. Now what if that "as long as" runs out and things get rough as a female the first thing you gonna jump on is " your lack of sexual capability". Now don't get me wrong sex isn't everything but it counts for a lot. Honestly Men don't mean to cheat they just don't know what to do. Sometimes we as men get confused with what the proper thing is to do. For example if a girl you been going out with decides to stop having sex all of a sudden and that urge that you been having is suddenly gone, to top that y'all barely communicate then what do you do when a girl comes through and sweeps you off your feet. Do you break up with her? and then get with the new girl. But wait then that's too soon and she'll think your a cheater. but if you do it on the low and get caught your still a cheater. One thing that i find out is alarming is people cuffing on the pum pum. Thats a no-no you gonna catch feelings for a flow/slide and then end up dumping her ass in like 2-3 months crazy. I couldn't do that but that's just me and the thing is it be those dudes who mess it up for all the average people. Its been 2 years since ive been on the open market and i must say the pond is definitely looking scarce as of now. Not many fish in this ocean.