We broke up, but we still together

You ever been in a relationship where you guys break up yet you guys keep each other around because you feel that there's a chance that you might get back together? Well I'm writing this to say that in most situations you need to get over it and I'm gonna tell you why.

From the female point of view when she breaks up with a guy it can be over a few reasons but mainly because you see yourself in their life more than they do. With that in the back of your head you also realize the good times you share and the work you put in, with that being said you stay around because you feel attached to this person, and its human nature for females to grow attached to things they put time into. If the guy doesn't want to be with you his actions will dictate that to you, and most likely you need to leave. If you stay around not only do you run the risk of getting hurt, but you lose a friend and all chances of getting with that person. Its a fine line most times however that honestly takes being in the situation to understand and outside forces cant dictate how that will go no matter how you roll it.

Now from the male point of view, when he breaks up with a girl it can usually be summed up into one or a few reasons. A guy can break up with a girl for foolish reasons such as; She cant cook, shes flirtatious, she doesn't care, or you don't see yourself with her in the future. Now i have countless amounts of male friend who would say the latter is the main reason they break up with females, but as you might find there's many reasons why guys keep girls around. For one if the sex is good, that's something you don't want to let go of, we all have are needs and that's one of them. Most of the time a guy feels that he can use a girl's clingy-ness are overbearing emotion to him as an advantage, and in most cases this works. A guy is smarter than he lets on, preying on weakness they can find how to work themselves into a situation where, you guys go from broken up, to still being together as if you guys had a title, overall, however, its most likely a set up for him to find someone new.

In short, both male and female need to look at the red flags that both genders throw up after they break up with each other. The love you thought that was there might not be reciprocated in the fashion you wish or want. Sometimes its best to just drop it, love shouldn't hurt, it should feel pure, genuine, and should be shared. If at anytime there isn't 50/50 participation in love, and hasn't been for a while, it might be time to hang it up, there's someone out there that will love you, trust me...

Colors of Appearance Part I

Everyday on twitter and in life alone, i always hear things about "well i like em light-skin" or "team brown-skin all the way" or "darker the berry sweeter the juice #Teamdarkskin (if the berry was that dark, then Wesley snipes is one sweet dude) Pause. regardless of this ignorant talk.

How stupid are we as african-americans, or any other descent, to label each other off skin color? Lightskins are referred to as the house slaves because they were all goody with the slave master, while brown/darkskin people are considered field slaves because they worked under the heat.

We all come in different shades but to clarify yourself as belonging to a certain color and claiming your better, makes you no better than Hitler and his Aryan brotherhood. You think white people say Team blue eyes over Team Green eyes all day?? No stop being ignorant for once and actually open your eyes, and see that we always try to bring ourselves down over the stupidest of things. Either which way you look at it however no matter how light your skin you will always be a minority in the eyes of Caucasian and any other race until you decide to knock off the silly games and act like the people of one.

Too Damn Nice

Fuck this shit im too nice to go back
Gonna come straight out the gate and say fuck you for that
I hate how i gotta be nice all of sudden
Dudes out here turning dimes in to muffins
Gosh your a sweetheart, bitch you a diet or something?
catch diabetes since im your sweet lil nothing
yeah im angry, and that's that, i generalize if i want to
you cant even stop that,
i sit idly by while you give a glancing eye
you stay judging me, but cant live life thru a just eye
so i realize the lies that was feeding me
and the real eyes have said, you ain't accusing me
and the real lies was soon enough revealed to me
that females and males are just fools you see
we run around yapping talking bout we need 2 settle down
yet our ass wont even take an L sitting down
steady fighting for no reason like we proving a cause
all these whores slimes and slores have no simple cause
but a guy will stay picking, cuz we like it real simple
its not that your ugly, you just too damn deceiving
went a fooled yourself into believing, you the only reason
that a guy should tie you down for just a lil season
so here' my simple thesis for you non-believers
if you dumb down ya self maybe you will find a keeper.

Keep Going

I'm tired
abandon
feeling like I'm fighting a loosing struggle,
no respect from my peers,
and my elders think I'm jealous,
Ive been knocked down to all fours so I'm crawling for a sense,
to be someone special maybe the perfect gent,
its crazy how these words come down as each word is punched in
...like
click
click
click
that's the sound of my thoughts creeping in,
this mind that i have is so complex in thinking,
I'm often left sitting for days in my room
just reminiscence
on false hopes and memories that i know wont come back,
I'm getting to old cant even begin to go back.
I wish we had a time machine so i could change that
but time moves on so I'll never go back.

J. Heat ft Kingpin- Victory Freestyle

One Love - Trey Songz

In the Clouds

I look up into the clouds
I picture you and I
The dark clouds form around my eyes
I cry because the storm is above the lies
False sense of reality had me scarred from thighs to my eyes
Never wil i know true love because i was blinded by your heart
Lies and cheats where do i start
Omega to Alpha End to beginning
too many thoughts cloud my inner thinking
Curse the line from up in the clouds
Im left standing here fertizling the ground with my cries.
Screaming out to boundless heavens and endless depths
Im alone in this world, so im asking whats next?
Die by this sword or take my final test
life is so short who cares if i stunt?
Never realize your most cherished when you rope is too short.
So dead by 24 i lived my life off of hope
the last of my kind the last breath of fresh hope.

All for One

All for one, none for all, steady going for the one coveted by all
day by day, hour by hour, hoping he give you some shade,
you know what you was getting into, had groupies all over here,
you thought you could change him , and be the only one,
foolish thoughts, because hes playing the game like a mage,
your just another girl going all in for one
at the end you just lost, because simply put, he knows your worth
you try so hard to find love, but the guy whose actually feeling you?
well he gotta fend for himself.
Its a shame because hes probably the one for you
but hes too nice of a guy and has perfect flaws for you
such a sweetheart and takes care of it all for you
but you want bad boy daddy with the tats and all
push a nice whip got a crib with no job support
so blind of you not to figure it all
its OK because that nice dude figure it out twice
he was your fall-back option
but now he found his price, your worth was priceless
meaning you was a Zero, alright
nice guy found a girl whose was twice as nice,
and left u thinking damn he right
i was putting all my eggs in one basket
for a dude who didn't even like me like.